How to correct low self esteem is not as difficult as it may seem to be. It is just a matter of putting a few things in their proper place within the fabric of our mindset.
Let’s make this a fun endeavor as being overly serious only adds to our dilemma. Always remember that something that has been created can also be uncreated. Let’s not forget how powerful we really are.
How to Correct Low Self Esteem Even When We Don’t Believe We Can
“Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.” — William James —
Belief is so very powerful. We can live a life of joy and abundance or imprison ourselves within the confines of false premises all as the result of our beliefs. So, take the hint that it is a good idea to at least be willing to believe there is the possibility of correcting our low self-esteem.
When we truly understand the power of creation and how it shapes our lives we will awaken to the gift of responsibility. At this point, we will laugh at even the thought of victimhood.
When we recognize our inherent worth and are willing to accept what we have achieved regardless of how large or small, we have then positioned ourselves to believe in our self esteem and make the appropriate changes necessary.
It helps to be kind to ourselves and have some self-compassion. Let’s celebrate our strengths and reframe our negative thoughts.
By surrounding ourselves with positive and supportive people we will feel uplifted and inspired to set realistic goals and participate in fulfilling activities. As we reflect on positive experiences we affirm our ability to build our self esteem and self worth.
How to Correct Low Self Esteem Step-by-Step
“Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.” — Golda Meir —
It took some time to create doubt and uncertainty that resulted in low self-esteem. So, it should not come as a surprise that it will take a bit of time and effort to make the necessary corrections.
We must take our time as each step reveals the next step. By taking manageable steps we are able to proceed at our own pace without undue anxiety or resistance.
The key is to begin. The first step only needs to be a small intention to take action by the slightest move forward in the direction of our desire.
In terms of how to correct low self esteem this can be reading an inspiring message of truth, relaxing and spending some time in quiet reflection on how we currently feel, or even speaking to a trusted friend or family member about our challenges.
By taking the smallest step we break the inertia which signals to our consciousness that we are willing to correct our current state of conditioning and embrace the truth about ourselves. Our current paradigm has us caught up in a bunch of lies about ourselves based on our past pain or trauma.
In extreme cases, we feel trapped in an “emotional straitjacket” unable to move. Although what we feel is real, its foundation is not since it is based on illusion and not truth.
That’s the interesting thing about perception in that it does not need to be true to create a reality that is so easy to buy into and produce witnesses and proof that “this is just the way things are”. We then make choices and decisions based on these false perceptions glued together by a paradigm based on lies.
The good news is that the same creative energy used to produce insanity can be used to reveal the truth about ourselves. There really is nothing to “do”, but rather it is a process of “undoing”. Let’s now see how.
Untangling the Web of Lies About Ourselves
“The most common lie is that which one lies to himself; lying to others is relatively an exception.” — Friedrich Nietzsche —
Let’s take the First Step toward our freedom together with a few helpful insights.
- Commit to change
- Make this a priority
- Schedule time during the week to spend time on inner change
- Daily spend a few minutes reflecting on the thoughts that arise and merely observe
- Ask why we think and feel this way and allow other ideas and thoughts to surface. These will lead to the underlying beliefs.
- Question these beliefs as to their veracity and only keep the true ones. Over time it becomes easier to make the distinction.
- Recognize that these beliefs create our perception which is an interpretation of reality and not reality itself.
- Celebrate the truth about ourselves
At the very essence of this process, we are replacing fear with love.
Understanding How to Correct Low Self Esteem
“The authentic self is the soul made visible.” — Sarah Ban Breathnach —
We understand how to correct self esteem once we are true to ourselves. The answer as always lies within.
It is always a choice between love and fear. Once we become aware that fear only exists because of our belief, it will fade away into non-existence.
As was just revealed, how to correct low self esteem is a multifaceted approach. It’s all about self-reflection, commitment, determination, honesty, and self-compassion.
We reinforce positive self esteem by surrounding ourselves with people who have the traits that we desire and engaging in activities that reinforce a positive self-image. These supportive and uplifting people are role models for us and prepare us to help others as well.
Any type of cognitive-behavior technique or mindfulness exercise will enhance our awareness of our internal joy and goodness. Celebrate progress no matter the amount and realize that progress is being made even when not apparent.
It takes time and dedication to create a new paradigm that replaces the old programming and conditioning that is responsible for any low self esteem. As the truth about ourselves emerges we rejoice in living an authentic life moment-to-moment.
In Peace and Love within the Light,
Joseph William
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This article is so inspirational! I have definitely had times in my life where I’ve suffered from a low self esteem. This has such negative consequences. In my case, it would cause extreme procrastination. I like what you said about just taking that first step towards our desires in breaking the cycle. A way that I self reflect is to go on a long hike. Being in nature and having that solitude is a way for me to truly analyze the beliefs I have about myself. I had a friend tell me years ago- every person is a 10. I think it is such a shame that people can honestly feel as if they have no value. You have a very uplifting message- and I hope people that need it most find it.
Thanks, Misty. Your thoughts and comments are most appreciated. Best, Joseph
Hi Joseph,
I loved reading this article, very inspirational.
There are so many people throughout the world with low self esteem who could do with reading this article, I know a few and I am going to share this with them.
In my life I have had my ups and downs including low self esteem, but if you can do things that you want to do while still feeling that low self esteem then that will definitely help raise it.
Thank you for sharing and keep up the great work.
All the best,
Tom
Thanks so much, Tom. I appreciate your insights. Best, Joseph
Hello Joseph!, this is a fantastic and empowering post on correcting low self-esteem!
I love how you emphasize the power of belief and taking small, consistent steps toward change.
Your insights provide a clear and encouraging roadmap for anyone looking to rebuild their confidence.
Thank you for sharing such valuable and uplifting guidance!
Stay blessed
Thanks so much, Esquiwal. You thoughts are much appreciated.